This blog is Part 1 of a 3 part series on the Pursuit of a Fruitful Life
My home is an excellent barometer of my soul: I can generally judge the health of my life-pace by the condition of my house. A quick tour through my home this past week offered a shocking collection of misplaced items: dishes piling in the sink, clothes on the floor of my closet, an unmade bed, laundry in baskets, scattered baby toys after a visit with my grand-girls, a random Tupperware container on my coffee table. If anyone was to come for a visit today, I’d probably feel the urge to spill out a whole string of excuses…and I’m only confessing the stuff you can see with your eyes.
The condition of my house is a mere shadow to what goes on inside my soul during hectic and busy seasons. After doing a little soul inventory, I was shocked by the disorder and chaos that had developed there over the first quarter of this new year. Weeks of running in too many directions at once left little time to strengthen the course of my life.
Proverbs says, “Guard your heart ABOVE ALL ELSE, for it determines the course of your life.” (Prov 4:23)
If you’re anything like me, ‘all else’ almost always comes before taking care of the issues of my heart. At some point emotional warning sirens begin to blare, informing us that if we don’t listen to the timid needs and longings of our soul, an empty tank may leave us stranded. So this past week, I decided to pay attention to the chaos. I cleared my calendar and carved out 48 hours for inner housekeeping.
Just as I was preparing to turn off my phone to prevent distractions, I received a text from a friend. Her morning began with the disappointing news that an incredible job opportunity had escaped her. However, she wasn’t texting me to complain. Amidst her disappointment, God met her with timely encouragement. Her text read, “Patty, you MUST take a moment to read 1 Timothy 4 this morning.”
“Must” spiked my interest and gave me a starting point for my time away. So, I grabbed my Bible. After surrendering the chaos of my soul to the One who isn’t threatened or disgusted by it, I read the passage below. Within moments God began to blow away the dust and sort through the clutter.
14 Do not neglect the spiritual gift you received…
.15 Give your complete attention to these matters.
Throw yourself into your tasks so that everyone will see your progress.
16 Keep a close watch on how you live and on your teaching.
Stay true to what is right for the sake of your own salvation
and the salvation of those who hear you.
(1 Timothy 4:14-16)
Several of the highlighted phrases captured my attention, but the phrase “Give your complete attention to…” felt downright daunting. Complete attention? That’s where I struggle…and that’s why my soul becomes so routinely cluttered and chaotic. The phrase feels like a far-off, unattainable goal. Do women (wives, moms, career women) who constantly respond to the rising needs of the moment EVER have the luxury of giving “complete attention” to anything?
I am grateful that the following line provides us with a standard of measurement. The goal is not perfection, but visible progress. We will not be able to do ALL THINGS well, but what if we stayed true to what we know to be our most important tasks within our current season?
When I say ‘yes’ to a vast number of good things, or when I take on responsibilities that others are fully equipped to handle, I make a choice to neglect the spiritual gift God has given me. I forfeit the joy of experiencing the impact of a gift that has been nurtured and cultivated when I fail to discipline my time or give my complete attention to the unique task He’s given me to do.
I bet this rings true for most of us. So, what if we began to make progress by praying, “What is one thing I can do today to nurture the spiritual gift You have given me?”
A tree doesn’t naturally produce fruit. Its natural tendency is to produce wood, resulting in an overgrowth of sucker-branches. Left alone, our lives develop similar overgrowth. Would you prayerfully ponder these questions with me today?
- Am I guarding my heart above all else? What does “all else” represent for me?
- In what areas has my life become overgrown? (i.e. what is keeping me from bearing fruit?)
- Have I taken on responsibilities/activities that are preventing me from being able to give my complete attention (time, energy, and creativity) to cultivating the spiritual gifts God has given me?
- ‘Complete attention’ requires a willingness to make the tough decision to prune back those branches that sap my time and energy. What do those branches represent in my life?
In John 15, Jesus says,
“I am the true vine, and my Father is the gardener. 2 He cuts off every branch in me that bears no fruit, while every branch that does bear fruit he prunes so that it will be even more fruitful….8 By this my Father is glorified, that you bear much fruit”
God wants YOU to be fruitful!
Let’s trust God with the pruning shears. We subtract. God multiplies. Let’s invite Him to show us where we need to subtract from our fullness so that He can multiply our fruitfulness!
Barbara Fetter says
I was, just this morning, reflecting on some stuff floating around in me lately. The result is fruit that is not what tastes good or pleasing to God. This inspiring post reminds me that I need to re-group, look at what is important, press on to acknowledge God and see that He is good. All else for me is remembering God is author and perfecter, not me. It is not just checking the box, it is real intentional inventory taking and cleaning out of the old and allowing God to replace it with HIM. Thank you for always inspiring me. My heart was indeed in need of this reminder and gentle push in the right direction.
pattym says
Oh Barbara, your heart is always so open to grow and receive. I am so grateful that God isn’t requiring perfection in our lives. He simply nudges us toward progress in him! You are dearly loved!
Cara says
I love your statement ,”we subtract, He multiplies”. Sounds like a great deal to me! Working on getting back on center myself. I so love the Fathers way of reminding us of where our true purpose and peace are found. He uses the situations and circumstances around each one of us ,such as a messy house to speak to us. Gotta love that! Looking forward to your next installment.
pattym says
It is a great deal! I love the way God does math…and the way in which He meets us intimately in the mundane! I love you, Friend!
Ashley says
There are so many highlights in this post for me today. This is the exact thing I needed to read on the first day of my week without Jon. I’m really thinking about what I can prune (especially while he’s gone) so the important things don’t suffer. Thank you Patty
pattym says
Your teachable spirit inspires me deeply, Ashley. I know that God is going to show you what to cut back on so that He can multiply His good fruit in you!
Julie Reed says
Wow, this really it home. I’m a single mom of two beautiful girls. I run a very busy schedule between working full-time and being mom. My bigs just had a minor surgery but big for her as it was her first. She did well and now is at her dad’s for a few days. God gave us an extra day together on Sunday as I got put on standby from work.
We planted flowers, shopped and just hung out. My heart was so blessed. I shared with my girls how grateful I was that God was watching over us.
Today I was to work a 12 hour shift. I woke at 4am with my head spinning and nausea present. I called in sick, which I hate to do. I said out loud..”ok God what’s up, what do I need to look at.”
You’re email was the first thing I saw! Tears came to my eyes. I love how God sends us little angels to keep us on track!!
I’m grateful for the time to reflect today in bed and know that God has me right where he needs me!
Thank you for all you do!,!
Sincerely, .
Julie Reed
pattym says
Oh Julie, I love the intimate nature of God. He always meets us in the sweetest ways on in unexpected places. I hope you feel better soon!
Donna Hrehor says
Awesome message! Thanks Patty!!!
pattym says
Thank you for your constant encouragement, Donna!